Reuben Elias Turner
January 28, 1928 - July 3, 2014
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." -John 3:16
My sweet Papa was born in Hawkinsville, Georgia in 1928 and was the oldest sibling to two younger brothers, Jim and John. He served in the 702nd Army Air Force and was
awarded a World War II
Victory Medal before attending The University of Georgia (Go Dawgs!). He met my Gram in Athens, and they got married 65 years ago in July 1949. They moved to Maine and eventually had my Aunt Jane, Uncle David, and dad. Papa worked at Firestone Tires for 38 years and moved with his family several times, living in Maine, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, Connecticut, Ohio, and Florida. After his retirement in 1991, he and Gram bought a house on Lake Winnipesauke in New Hampshire and spent their days boating, golfing, and hosting family get-togethers during the summers. During the winter they would either travel the country in their RV or cruise the world on the QEII. He and my Gram were always together and loved spending time with their family. Through the years Papa had bypass surgery and battled prostate, lung, and pancreatic cancers, but he always had a smile on his face and never once complained.
It honestly still doesn't feel real that my Papa is gone. My parents and I went up to New Hampshire last week for the visitation, and I half expected him to jump out from behind the door when we walked in and tell us he was just kidding. He was such a big part of our lives, and it so hard knowing we can't hug him or call him or tell him we love him again. It is comforting and amazing, though, knowing how many people loved him and how many lives he touched in his 86 years. Everyone that talked about him confirmed what we already knew-- that his smile and laughter lit up a room, that he was always positive and kind, and that he adored his big family. He was one of the absolute best people I know, and as sad as I am to say goodbye, I can't help but be grateful that I got to spend 27 years with him. I know his memory and spirit will live on in all of his family, and not a day will go by that we won't miss him terribly.
The pictures below show a little snapshot of his life and the family he leaves behind.
"Sometimes I feel my heart is breaking,
But I stay strong and I hold on cause I know,
I will see you again,
This is not where it ends,
I will carry you with me,
'Til I see you again."
-Carrie Underwood
I like to think my Papa's up in Heaven looking over us and maybe even playing a round of golf with my
Grampy right now. :)
I miss you so much and will love you forever, Papa.